Balancing care between generations—stories and support for parents with kids and elderly parents.

Dementia

  • Dementia and the Law: When there is no Lasting Power of Attorney

    Dementia and the Law: When there is no Lasting Power of Attorney

    My mum was most worried about what would happen if she passed away before my dad. So, she began the legal process to ensure that he would be well taken care of. This story is about what that process was like. For this story, my dad will be referred to as Mr. Butter, and my…

  • The caregiver’s plight – when caring for someone with dementia

    The caregiver’s plight – when caring for someone with dementia

    “This sharing focuses on the weeks following the dangerous incident my dad experienced. The takeaway from this story is that not all of us have the support or capacity to care for loved ones suffering from dementia—and that’s okay. It’s important to acknowledge those feelings and seek help when needed. For this story, my dad…

  • The Trigger Point: The moment we realized we needed help with Dementia

    The Trigger Point: The moment we realized we needed help with Dementia

    This sharing will focus on when my dad’s Dementia got dangerous. It is essential for caregivers and those at the beginning of their Dementia journey to know what happens if they do not keep themselves safe. I will be referring to my dad as Mr Butter and my mum as Mdm Wholemeal. Hope you find…

  • Turning Point: How Isolation Can Accelerate Dementia

    Turning Point: How Isolation Can Accelerate Dementia

    “In this story, I’ll share our family’s experience with my dad, whom I’ll refer to as Mr. Butter, and my mom, Mdm. Wholemeal, during and after the COVID lockdowns. I hope you find this journey both enlightening and helpful.” Mrs Bacon COVID became a pivotal moment in Mr. Butter’s battle with dementia. Unable to go…

  • The Emotional Rollercoaster of Accepting ADHD

    The Emotional Rollercoaster of Accepting ADHD

    Parenting is never easy, but when we found ourselves facing a future with ADHD, it brought emotions and realizations we weren’t prepared for. The Weight of GuiltWhen we first suspected that Master Focaccia might have ADHD, I was flooded with guilt. Research confirmed what I feared—ADHD often runs in families. It felt like I had…